Grief & Pleasure Scar Care

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I’m gathering interest in future online spaces for those tending scars, preparing for surgery, or living into the changes surgery brings.

These may include:

• Queer Scar Care drop-ins
• Top Surgery Grief & Pleasure circles
• Bottom Surgery Grief & Pleasure circles

These circles use body-led practices, private reflection, storytelling, shared witnessing, scar care and pleasure practices to explore what is present and what you want to grow from where you are.

These gatherings will happen when enough people are ready. Joining the list helps me understand what kind of space you want and lets me tell you when one becomes available.

ell me what kind of company you’re looking for.

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ell me what kind of company you’re looking for.

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ell me what kind of company you’re looking for.

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I’m gathering interest in future online spaces for people tending scars, preparing for surgery, living into the changes surgery brings, or exploring how scars move through sensation, grief, pleasure, identity, and intimacy.

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These may include:

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• Grief & Pleasure circles

• Scar Care drop-ins

• Focused gatherings around visible and invisible scars—including chest, genital, internal, surgical, injury, illness, trauma, piercing, and other scars.

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These gatherings use body-led practices, private reflection, storytelling, shared witnessing, scar care, and pleasure practices to explore what is present and what you want to grow from where you are.

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They will happen when enough people are ready. Joining the list helps me understand what kind of space you want and lets me tell you when one becomes available.

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Tell me what kind of company you’re looking for.

I’m gathering interest in future online spaces for people tending scars, preparing for surgery, living into the changes surgery brings, or exploring how scars move through sensation, grief, pleasure, identity, and intimacy.

​

These may include:

• Grief & Pleasure circles

• Scar Care drop-ins

• Focused gatherings around visible and invisible scars—including chest, genital, internal, surgical, injury, illness, trauma, piercing, and other scars.

​

These gatherings use body-led practices, private reflection, storytelling, shared witnessing, scar care, and pleasure practices to explore what is present and what you want to grow from where you are.

​

They will happen when enough people are ready. Joining the list helps me understand what kind of space you want and lets me tell you when one becomes available.

​

Tell me what kind of company you’re looking for.

​

I’m gathering interest in future online spaces for people tending scars, living into the changes surgery brings, or exploring how scars move through sensation, grief, pleasure, identity, and intimacy.

​

These may include:

​

• Grief & Pleasure circles

• Scar Care drop-ins

• Focused gatherings around visible and invisible scars—including chest, genital, internal, surgical, injury, illness, trauma, piercing, and other scars.

​

These gatherings use body-led practices, private reflection, storytelling, shared witnessing, scar care, and pleasure practices to explore what is present and what you want to grow from where you are.

​

They will happen when enough people are ready. Joining the list helps me understand what kind of space you want and lets me tell you when one becomes available.

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Joining the interest list is not registration and does not commit you to attending.